Saturday, April 29, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #30

Hey guys,
Again been a crazy week, and two weeks to go to graduation, After this weekend I should be able to do updates on time and also do more podcasts. I haven't done one in a month. But Here are some favs of mine in undies and speedos, but I think there are more speedos. Enjoy guys










DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Saturday, April 22, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #29

More shirtless guys.

Yeah, I'm sticking with the theme but who don't love a shirtless guy. And I was too tired to search for more! Be good.







DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Reflections and Lessons Learned

Ok, first off, if you’re following at home, I know I’m behind on blog entries but you’ll just have to deal while I get adjusted to my new job, and also finishing school, I’m under the gun. But after May 7th I can write more. Well that’s the plan…

This is an entry I’ve wanted to do for a week, but I never wrote it down I’ve had it in my head and have worked on it but here goes. So we know I’m back to being single and that’s not a bad thing, I think everything has positives, and that’s what I’m doing. Although I will say that dating Thomas was good for me because for the longest time there was no one I remotely fell for and I did him, yes I honestly loved him with all my heart, and I still do today but I’m not in love with him as in dating. I thought for the longest time that I’d be alone and yes I secretly thought that. But I feel like my world has been opened up.

The lessons I learned:

  • First, I need more friends, but hell if you’ve read my blog you know that already. I mentioned that a year ago, and I’ve made strides to do that this year and with no school (after may) and working a steady job I’ll be able to do that. I plan to move into town too so that will aid it as well.

  • Secondly, to go along with that I need to spend more time with my friends, and before some of you get on the band wagon about a man taking more time, well first I didn’t have a lot of friends and Thomas never stopped me from spending time with my friends I had. One of the things I respect about him is he spent time with his friends and made a point to do it, I have to do that better the next time. But hey at least I recognize it.

  • Next, I was more outgoing in this relationship but I more majorly assertive. I didn’t do bad in this relationship, things that mattered to me I said so, but I think all in all I did well in this category, I know I could do better but it wasn’t like I was like “anything you want honey” I learned how to make my wished and needs heard. I just need to keep it up.

  • Lastly, I learned I have a lot to offer someone, I know this sounds stupid but for the longest time I wondered what I had to offer someone. With Thomas I found that out. I found out I’m very caring, and supportive and I try to compliment my partner in ways that make the relationship and ourselves better, I know that sounds like crap but I have value damn it!

I think I learned more but I’m tired and can’t remember what I learned, so more will follow.

Reflections

There's only us
There's only this
Forget regret or
Life is yours to miss
No other road
no other way
No day but today

Ok, If you know the lyric you score points. It’s from Rent the Movie. Which I am hooked on, It’s on the iPod and I listen to it all the time. This past weekend, Easter weekend I was home alone. Well, I got me some frozen pizza and Lean cuisine Paninis. I know I spelled that wrong, but the pizzas reminded me of being in bed with Thomas at nights watching tv and eating pizza. Which was so awesome, I want that again, and I know I’ll have that. There is one thing that Thomas did, that I don’t think he knows he did, hell I didn’t realize it till this week. He gave my life back. He showed me a world that I had forgotten about and now that I realize it is still out there, I had fallen into a rut for years and really found no way out of it. There was school, dead end jobs and home. . Thomas showed me a lot that I didn’t realize. I have been motivated to find a place to move out and begin my life. He introduced me to the world of Broadway and I love it, and one of the new great loves NYC.

Ok this is only the second blog entry ever I let someone read before I posted it. It maybe the third but very few. I let Thomas read this before I posted and he gave me some grammar changes and such, because one paragraph didn’t make sense. With that mentioned, I thought of a good analogy for the paragraph above. It’s like I was in a hole for a long time and you hear things out side that make a lot of noise and are scary, and you stay in the hole, you’re not going out there. But one day someone shows you what’s going on outside your world and you see that the people out there weren’t scary, hell they are having a party and you’ve been missing out. That’s what its like to hell with the way I was living I want to go out and have fun a not be stuck in the hole any more. OK no comments from the peanut gallery.

I think the trip to NYC was the turning point, I saw how NYC was and I was blown away. I can’t fully explain it but had I not dated him, I know I’d be right back where I was, it’s been great the last few weeks that I have been so motivated. I think this was all possible because he always saw something in me, even when I didn’t. He believed in me and my abilities. Which I haven’t had much in my life.

Here’s a short list of things that Thomas got me into
  • Broadway
  • Dad’s Garage
  • NYC
  • Stargate (both shows)
  • Tripping the Rift
  • Mary’s
  • East Atlanta – the area I want to live in.
  • Just to name a few there are much more things I learned in four short months.

But I am glad I still have him in my life and that he’s still a great friend. It’s funny because he still reads the blog and I’m glad he does. I have a great feeling we’ll be great friends if not best friends for a lifetime.

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #28

Here they are, two days late, I have been so busy with school and work i'ts going to take some adjustment. Also I got a massive gout attack in my hand and knee and was out of commission till last night. I did another shirtless series, hell who don't like hot shirtless guys! Enjoy








DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

hey guys

Ok, I know you're looking for the hot guy of the week. I am getting in bed and the new job adn school is running me ragged, but I really like the new job. So tomorrow night I'll post the hot guy of the week. Hell I haven't even picked the pics out yet. so Bare with me, this will hopefully just be a this week thing. Be good
Tim

Tuesday, April 11, 2006

BUSY BUSY BUSY

Ok, I’ve started my new job and it’s keeping me busy and going to school OMG I’m being run down, glad it’s just for three more weeks. So just in case you wonder where I’ve gone I”ll be in finals mode and graduate, so I’m slammed for the next few weeks.

On a good note, I got some Unico Unidies, and OMG, they rock, a pair of the shorter boxer briefs and mesh briefs. WOW, I got them today and put them on I want more! Just remember that you need to buy a size up from what you normally wear.

I hope to volunteer at Dad’s Garage on Friday for Scandal, I’ll find out tomorrow if I get in! Ok I’ll post the HGOTW and quick updates till I’m done with school! Be good

Friday, April 07, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #27







DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Sunday, April 02, 2006

A Swing and a Miss

Ok this is another Three for day I think. Today was the first time I played softball this year. I missed the games last weekend, due to the fact I was in Orlando with the AMA Collegiate International Conference.

This week started off bad, because I got gout in both knees, left wrist and right big toe. This sucked, it really had me wondering if I’d be playing. But by the end of the week I was feeling good, not great but good enough to play.

The first game I didn’t’ play, they had me sit out, because they weren’t sure that I would play, we played a good team and tied 11 to 11. Which was good. I think we have a great team and I really like the guys on it, and think this will be a great year.

I played the second game, as catcher, but no comments there! We played my friend Joe’s Team, and the game started off great, we were up. I got up to bat and hit a great hit and got two RBI’s (Runs batted in), which surprised me, I was like WOW, But when I started off from home, my knee almost gave out, and I thought OH NO, but I didn’t go down and made it first. But I got out at Second. The next bat I got out before I got to first and then the last bat I stuck out. Yes my very first strike out in softball. But I did catch a pop foul and got an out.

The team will do well this year and I’ll really enjoy being on it. Plus I get a reason to wear my cowboy hats again!

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A Year Of My Counter


You can see I’ve had my counter a year and the first part of it, there were very few readers. Then in November it took off. I did the story about Skin Tight parties in NYC, and I got and retained a lot of readers. I also got listed on a few sites. Then this past month Large Tony listed me on his in a post and I got extra readers. Thanks for the reading guys.

Friday, March 31, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #26

More Self pic takers

sorry guys this week has been crazy and I forgot about posting till now. Hope you enjoy!







DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Underwear, very interesting


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This is the new home page of Topdrawers.com. I will say HOT HOT HOT. They are showcasing N2N line. Which I think is an awesome line but you have to have a good body to wear it. As you can tell. I haven't tired it for the obvioius reasons but I'm not sure how thier pouches are, if they are made for big boys or not. I think they stretch, from what i hear from a friend, and fit damn good too.

Just a quick undie update, stay tuned for more!

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Single again

This will be a short post. As of Sunday things with Thomas and me ended. But this is not a sad post because, me and him are still friends, and I think it’s good we ended it and are able to keep the friendship we have developed then let it go on for months and hate each other. I think right now friends are best for us. He’s an awesome guy and I’m glad I have him as my friend. I’m not going to go into specifics but we both think it’s for the best and no real fault for each other. So you’ll keep hearing about Thomas in the blog just not as my boyfriend

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #25

Hot Guys Taking Self Pics
I love these kinds of pics!







DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

I Heart New York

Well I made it back safe and sound. But here’s my trip that I thought was pretty awesome. I’m so glad I went, I was worried about the knees going but I did pretty well other then a kicked suit case and gout acting up in my wrist.

Day 1

Subway Stop at 72nd Street

We wake up at the crack of dawn, opps its before dawn, at 4 AM, get ready and head to the airport. Our flight leaves at 6:40 or something like that. We go through security, and I put everything in and before I walk through he said I had to take of my shoes, and I’m like “you gotta be sh*tting me?” I didn’t say It I thought it, this really annoyed me, even though this was a time when I went through without the metal detector going off. So we head off down the escalator to the transportation mall at Hartsfield. And head ot the gate A 4, which is a walk and a half, but I didn’t know what a walk was till later. But on the way to the gate they have have an iPod vending machine. I kid you not. I forgot to get a pic of it, but they had Nanos, Shuffles and I think video iPod. I’m like NO WAY! And I learned something really cool, Ginger helps motion sickness, so I took two ginger root capsules from GNC and I did pretty well on the flight. The flight up was pretty good, it wasn’t turbulent or anything. And the plane was almost empty, Go Delta. We fly into Newark Liberty Airport. We get our luggage and decided to take the shuttle bus into the city. Which was pretty cheap, only $13 bucks, which ain’t bad. The good thing is that the bus dropped us off at the Port Authority Bus Station at 42nd and 8th Ave.

We had a short walk up the street to the Westin at Time Square. Which was an awesome hotel. Which I found out today the guests of Martha Stewarts show stay there. We check in and the day is going to be a long one. We get on the subway, and I love the day passes, and head up to the upper west side to visit a good friend of Thomas’ who had a baby and they have been friends for a long time. I had a good time meeting her and saw the baby and we hung out for a bit, then we were off to have lunch with one of Thomas’ old co workers at the State Door Deli across from the New York hotel and Madison Square Garden. The burger was really good. They talked shop and I have to say they have the best pickles. HMMM. Then we headed back down so 20 something street ot the homeless shelter for senior citizens where a friend of Thomas’ plays the piano and sings. It was really fun to me. We walked in and the person who cooks, I forgot her name, said these must be the Atlanta friends. So we came in and sat down. They sang songs and anything you could imagine. The one person who really just made me smile was Veronica, and elderly lady who just love the signing and sang Unchained Melody. The great thing was that they gave out instruments to the people sitting and everyone who wanted to sing could. It was great. Just makes you think, I think, as I get political again, that younger homeless, barring any mental or physical defect, can be trained and change things if they want too, but elderly homeless I think is something we should do about. Because things happen, a partner may die and you may not be able to afford to live, or have an illness and medical bills that are overwhelming and such. You can’t just train them to do something and make a living. It’s harder and sometimes you have physical limitations. But they fed and gave entertainment, and I had a good time, I just wished I knew the songs better and also if I could sing. I hope the next time we go back up we can go back by it. So we had dinner with his friend who played the piano and talked then headed back to the hotel to get ready. One thing I noticed was that the Gay.com billboard, the blue undies around the ankles, I couldn’t believe it, This was the many of undie sightings I would have.

Empire State Building taken near Madison Squre Gardin

We saw Grey Gardens. Which is an off Broadway show, I won’t go into the details about off and on Broadway, hell I don’t know it. But it’s based on the documentary of the same name about Jackie O’s Aunt and Cousin. The first act is about what happened that made them go crazy. Which was very good, I was kinda skeptical about it but we sat the first row. And if you’ve never been to theater in NYC, the theaters are smaller and more intimate. Which I think is great. While watching Grey Gardens there were two very emotional scenes right in front of us. I’m talking if I reached out I could have touched them. I was like WOW. And I said before we went if I didn’t see a raccoon I was going to be upset. Well I got my raccoon, they showed a picture of one on the side of the set when it was raccoons making noise if the attic. The second act was the movie. It was dead on, the two actresses playing the parts of Big and little Eddie (Insert names) were dead on. It was great, I hope they come out with a soundtrack of the show. If you have a chance to go see it, GO, they keep extending it, it’s playing at the Horizons Playhouse Theater.

Then we went back to the room, we were going to go to Thomas’ favorite bar “Marie’s Crisis” but when we got back to the room I was beat, it was around 11, and I needed at least a nap, but I ended up passing out. I was spent.

Day 2
View out of the hotel room

One day down in NYC and we start another one. We get up and head to Century 21. Which I have heard about from Thomas and some of his friends. Which if you’re familiar with it its like a Marshall’s or TJ Max with much much more. And great prices. It’s right across the street to ground zero, and the bargains were plenty. The underwear section alone had me all excited. I got over 50 bucks of undies, a Puma, 2xist, Intimo and the new Speedo undies. If I had not been more careful I would have spent well over 100 bucks on undies alone. But I had to tone it back and not get it. I figured I didn’t need 100 bucks in undies when I may have trouble paying bills next month. But Thomas did some heavy duty shopping. If I had had more money I would have bought some shoes, I could have gotten them but I had just gotten 2 pairs of sneakers and didn’t need another, on the next trip I’ll probably go back and get a pair. But my new Nikes did an awesome job in NYC. So we leave Century 21 and head back to the hotel. We drop off our stuff and I got to see a preview of Times Square on the way back. We get back and get ready to go to the next show, Ring of Fire, based on the music of Johnny Cash. Well before I get into that, I got a pair of pants at Century 21 and dressed up a little nicer, the night before I wore jeans and a button up shirt and felt under dressed and I also had paint on every pair of Jeans I took I think. So that annoyed me. But we go in and it’s playing at the (Theater name). We sit on the lower level off to the side. Well I was expecting a story based on the lives of three couples, well there was on dialogue, just the songs. I already wasn’t excited because I’m not a big Johnny Cash fan but this proved why, They didn’t do a good job telling the stories. To me it was just like a concert nothing more. It did however feature Lari White, the country singer, but the second act got a little peachy, so it was my very first Broadway show. The only thing I liked was the scenery was on the screen that moved and split apart and did some cool things, but I wasn’t a fan of what they put on it but I think if they had the right art it would have been a lot better. So we leave there and head to Times Square.

Century 21 - Great Store!

I have to say I was blown away by Times Square. It was incredible, I really like it. The day before I kept saying NYC was an interesting town. And by Saturday, I was really liking the town. There were so many people and so much going on. I think that that’s the way many cities maybe in 10-15 years with the interactive billboards and such. It made me realize just how Atlanta is wasting it’s potential. Atlanta is like a second-class city to New York. We go to Virgin and it’s 3 floors of music and movies and such and I loved it. But one thing that really cracked me up and I didn’t’ get a pic of, was the Toys R Us Ferris wheel. It was so funny with the cars they had. I wish I had ridden it, next trip! I got some great pics. Which this trip the camera worked and I took over 67 pics. But on the way back to the hotel, we passed Hank Azaria on the street, I was like wasn’t that???

So we got something to eat and then headed back to my second Broadway show. Sweeny Todd, which was awesome. It stared Patti LaPone and Michael Cerveris. Which is a new take on the musical. Everyone in the cast plays instruments. In fact there is no orchestration at all other then the people on stage. The choice of cast was awesome. I sat 5th row center and it was awesome. But I had an issue with the two girls behind me. I had to listen to them talk about how tall I was and that they couldn’t see and just were being pains in the ass about it. I wanted to turn around and say I CAN HEAR YOU, I’m right here! But instead in the best passive aggressive way I sat up TALL and made their night that much more fun. I know I know But it was incredible, the only thing was the theater was small. They need more leg room.

So the theater got out, I saw it by myself and Thomas saw Bernada Alba, I think is the name, and he was waiting when I got out. I wanted to go back to the room and take a nap, but we went back and sat for a few minutes and then headed to Thomas’ favorite bar, Marie’s Crisis. Which is a piano bar, that people sing show tunes. I’m not exactly sure where it was, but it was very interesting. The room had to have been 30x15 or so and packed with people who know every show tune in existence. Which is cool but some of them I classified as the Trekies of the show tunes world. I mean I wanted to say that there is life outside of show tunes. But I didn’t. Listen to the podcast to hear a few things that happened, nothing major but it was fun. Then we headed back to the hotel. We took the subway back and for an Atlanta boy it’s cool to be able to ride the subway at 2 am and it’s cool. I really enjoyed that.


Day Three
I hope you know what this is!

I great nite sleep and we got up and I wanted to go to Central Park and Rockefeller Center. But it was raining like crazy, and we just took a cab up to Rockefeller Center and I saw the Today Show studio, they had stopped filming, the ice rink, and then we walked down the street and I saw Radio City Music Hall. Just the outside, but it was still pretty cool. We hopped on the subway and got bagels and went to see Thomas friend with the baby and hung out for a bit. And then headed to the Color Purple at the Broadway Theater. Which I must say the show was awesome. But before I get into the show, I got to see the Ed Sullivan Theater where they hold The David Letterman Show, which was cool and they have a CBS store right beside it and next time I’ll have to go in. Thomas got out tix changed to sixth row on the isle. I couldn’t belive it, it was so incredible show. I mean the whole writing and songs were pretty powerful. I really loved it, and the casting was incredible too. I think if you go to NYC don’t go see Phantom, Wicked or anything else, see Color Purple. It was incredible. As for Phantom, on Saturday, we were walking by the matinee of Phantom and it was around the block and running over, I’m like if you come to see a Broadway show, go see something new, a revival or something not something that has been there for 18 years or so. I just don’t get it.

Times Square Subway Station

So then we headed back to Times Square and went to Virgin again. I really love Times Square. I wanted to get a pic of Times Square and the city skyline. I try to get some good pics of the places I go. I have them of Seattle, Boston and DC. But I know I’ll go back and I’ll be able to get them, but it was raining and most the vendors in Times Square weren’t there. But I still love hanging out, oh one thing I noticed was the Hershey store. I couldn’t believe it. It’s just wild. But then we got something to eat from Ollies, I think is the name, some great Chinese food. I gored myself on sweet and sour chicken.

We headed around the corner to the American Airlines Theater to see the Pajama Game. Which started Harry Connick Jr. The set was so cool, it was really bright colors and had these big orange and pink buttons. The set was blue. The story of the Pajama Game is the workers in the Factory want 7.5 cents more and hour raise, set in 1959. I really liked this one too. The show also started Michael McKeon, I think that’s how you spell his name, from Laverne and Shirley and Spinal Tap. It was funny and really great. One of the best parts is you get to see Harry Connick shirtless, WOOF.

We were going to go out, but we stayed in and got packed for the trip home.

Day Four.

We got up and headed for the Airport, and if you catch the bus from the Port Authority, and they say across from Duane Reade or how ever you spell it, the bus picks you up from the corner in front of it. Look for the sign that says Newark Airport. That was the worst part. We got to the airport and got on a full plane to head back and all those damn commuter jets got in the way, were like 20th for take off and over half the planes in front of us were little jets that carry like 20 people. I’m like take the train and stay out of my way nice aren’t I? Then I got home and rested at Thomas’ house and then headed to class. Hell I was in Times Square in the morning and then in class in downtown Atlanta that night. What a way to spend the day!

I hope you enjoyed my telling of the NYC trip and listen to the podcast too. I can’t wait to go back to NYC, I think Thomas is going to get me hooked on doing NYC theater trips.


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Monday, March 20, 2006

NYC and Softball

Hey there, well I’ve just finished the NYC trip post, a week later, and as soon as I pick some pics and I’ll get it posted tomorrow. But I’m here in bed, I met a guy online who lives in the same neighborhood, what a small world. I also found out that if we had gone to Grey Gardens a night earlier we would have seen it with Rosie O’Donnell. The only famous person we saw was Hank Azaria.

But I started back playing softball. I’m not sure if I posted much at all on softball last year, I’m not sure why I didn’t. But I joined a new team this year, the Cowboys, how appropriate for me. And we started practicing, I think we have a great team. They are a lot of fun and it seems everyone gets along. I am one of two catchers, and no comments from the peanut gallery.

I really enjoy softball. I have fun at it, I suck at it but I enjoy it. Last year our team disbanded and I enjoyed playing with them and we had a good team, Our coach and manager couldn’t come back, and this seemed to happen with a lot of teams in D level. D level is the rec league. So its just for fun.

We had a practice over the weekend were we played a game with another D team, which was my friend Brian’s team, we had fun, but my legs are so sore, I need to find my compression shorts and do squats, OMG I’m still sore, three days later,

I have to do cardio and walk to get my stamina up. Especially for going to NYC again with Thomas, I’ll get left behind. I’m going to school and walking to the aquarium and getting my annual pass and that will be good for me.

OK I guess that’s it for now, be good, I’ll post the Hot guy of the week either late Wednesday or Early Thursday and not another post till probably Monday. Be good!

Podcast #6


Yeah here is #6, if you're not signed up through iTunes, click here to download. In this podcast I talk about postings, my NYC trip, and Crack TV. Specifically Project runway, Survivor, Apprentice and more.

I hope you enjoy! Email me if know any good reality shows. timothymgol@gmail.com

Friday, March 17, 2006

Hot Guy of the Week #24

Guys in Spandex

I thought I would showcase another thing I like. Hot guys in spandex. I believe all these guys are athletes in spandex. I love spandex because it shows off every part of a guy. YUM! Enjoy. BTW I'm working on the NYC post but it's taking longer then I thought it would. But it will get posted and the podcast done.








DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.