Music, Makes the People Come Together

Ok, one thing you have to know about me is that music plays a big part in my life. I don’t know where I heard it the other day but it said music is there in good times and bad. That’s so true. For me there are certain songs that make me happy, sad and one in particular that when I’m feeling down will just make me totally loose it. I know what you’re thinking now, what song? Well I’ll let you post comments and see if you can guess it, but I’ll give you a clue, it was done in the 90’s (I know big hint) and a guy sings it and he was a solo artist. Other then that you’re on your own.

For some reaons I like women singers better then men. I’ve always been that way, I’m not sure why. Some of my favorites are Faith Hill, who I’m watching right now on her NBC special, I should have taped it but I forgot too, DOH, I have loved her last three albums. But more on that later, other favorites are Gloria Estefan, Vanessa Williams, and the typical gay music Cher, Barbara, Bette Midler. As for men I love Elton John, prob have the most of him then anyone else, Garth Brooks, Brad Paisley, Tim McGraw, to name a few. Some fo the Groups I like are of course ABBA, Brooks & Dunn, Pet Shop Boys. These are just to name a few there are much much more that I like. And this is off the top of my head, I have a boat load of CD’s so I never can recall what I have off the top of my head, but it’s in the computer! Yeah I’m a geek.

But there are a few artists that just speak to me. You know you hear a song and it just speaks to you. Like the singer reached in your soul and pulled out a song and is singing just to you. There are a few artists who do this, the main one is Stevie Nicks. I don’t know what it is about her songs but there is a connection with her music. It just touches something in my soul. The other singer who really does this is another singer songwriter, Cheryl Crow, which is ironic, when All I want to do is have some fun, came out, I hated it, and really tuned her out. Then she came out with songs like Every Day is a winding Road, Favorite Mistake and I really took note of her and now I’m hooked, I think she totally rocks. I haven’t heard her new album but I have her greatest hits and I just love it. The last one, I have already mentioned, and she’s not a song writer but she picks songs that just do it for me, that’s Faith Hill. Her last two albums really have some great songs on it. I really liked the album Cry, it’s got some great songs and so does Firefly. Probably my favorite song by Faith Hill is “Like we never loved at all” with her sexy husband Tim McGraw. Just a great song after you’ve broken up. Just I felt the song the first time I heard it. This album has some great songs, another line I like is “stealing kisses from a boy, now you’re begging affection from a man, In my house dress, don’t you know who I am?” DAMN, that’s a line.

As I said earlier music touches me. When I’m depressed I can’t hear happy music, it has to be down and slow, when I’m mad I want to hear very loud and fast. Also when I’m upset or something is going wrong I listen to Motown. Classic Motown, Marvin Gaye, Supremes, Four Tops and the Temptations. Just something about it calms me down. And when I’m mad or upset I also sing really loud and to anything in the car, usually something that is very emotional and I’m sure I hack it to shreds, I can’t sing a note. Like I say the only person that has to suffer from my signing is my man. LOL I laugh for obvious reasons. But that’s in the car with the iPod, and I will say Apple rocks and has the best MP3 player, and no I’m not biased.

Yeah I have very diverse music interests. It drives people crazy. Let’s see what’s in my iPod now…
• Eagles – The Vest Of The Eagles
• Faith Hill – Firefly
• Cheryl Crow – Greatest Hits
• Billy Joel – Greatest Hits III
• Jodee Messina - Delicious Surprise
• Kathy Griffin – Podcasts From Her Show
• M People – Bizarre Fruit
• Paula Abdul – Greatest Hits
• Pet Shop Boys – Pop Art.
• Rascal Flats – Feels Like Today
• Rupaul – Foxy Lady
• Shania Twain – Up!
• Tim McGraw – Set This Circus Down
• Tina Turner – All The Best
• Abba – Millennium Collection.

Damn I have a lot of greatest hits on there. Didn’t realize how many I had till now. HMM gotta do something about that. I love the iPod because I can create play lists and just go, I made a killer CD a while back wished it could be longer, and now it can, I just have to find it and figure out what I put on it. But oh well. I hope this gives you a little in sight to me, a little more. I guess I’ll list my favorite songs right now.
• Pussy Cat Dolls – Don’tcha!
• Gwen Steffani – Hollaback Girl
• Faith Hill – Like We Never Loved At All
• Eagles – Hotel California
• Elton John – All That I’m Allowed
• Tina Turner – Open Arms
• Pet Shop Boys – Always On My Mind.
• Jodee Messina – My Give A Damn Is Busted

Just to list a few!

PS - I think if you didn't know I was gay that grafic sure lets you know! LOL

Lost Hot guy of the Week

This is the pic i was going to use a few weeks back but couldn't find. I thougth it was the same as this past entry but it's not. Hope you enjoy him,notice the same suit!

OK working on getting the thumbnail to work but click on the pic and you can see it full sized undistorted

DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

My Birthday.... It's All About ME!

Well, today was my birthday, and usually I’m all into but this year, with the sprained ankle and such I’m in no mood for it. But usually the birthday is the end all be all of the year for me. I guess I should explain why it’s so important to me.

Well, its just something that can’t be taken away from me. Even in the darkest days I had in my life I always had the birthday. I guess I took it as a celebration of me. I had some really bad times in my teens and early twenties and accepting being gay, making everyone happy and no self confidence. Which for the most part I have worked out a lot of that. I guess it’s hard for me to put into words on a page, in my mind it all make sense but actually putting this down into words just is hard. I don’t to sound like a total nutcase but as someone told me we all grow up in time and I guess my time is now.

It’s just I’ve never made a fuss about anything in my life. I’ve always been low key and laid back and as I told someone this birthday about what present to get me. I said “Look, I don’t care what you get me, it can be something for $2 or $2,000, as long as it comes from the heart, I’m one of the few people I know that still think it’s the thought that counts.” Which is so true with me. If you put thought and say, OMG Tim would love that, means so much more to me. But I guess growing up I always wanted a big party and never had them, I had a few close friends rather then a large group. Which I still have today, close friends that is. Which you have read about most of them.

This birthday is different for some reason, I guess because I’m going through a lot of transitions this year. Which for some reason made me seem old this week. It’s not the number 35, its just so much has happened this past year that I realize it’s time to move into the next part of my life. Graduate College, get my career started and get a good man. Well I may have one of those done, lol but we’ll see, and I’m talking about the man part. But I’m taking is slow and so is he, so that’s a great thing. I wonder what he’ll think when he reads this. Yes he reads this daily LOL, and how can I write something I don’t want him to know LOL, I guess I shouldn’t pic a public forum, but I’m glad he reads it, He surprised me the other day and quoted things off the blog and it made me feel special.

I’m supposed to be talking about why my birthday is so important to me. HMMM I’m telling you this is much easier when I think about it then write it. I guess it boils down to it makes me feel special. For once the attention is on me, which is very unlike me, I’d rather be the person behind the scenes working rather then the person center stage, I’ve always liked that. The birthday I’m on center stage. One day a year isn’t bad. See that wasn’t hard, lol I just had to ramble on for a bit. I guess we all need to feel special sometimes.

Cute Guy of the Week #9

Hot Swimmers Day!



This guy is so cute to me. Love his jammers and he's just an all american boy next door type.



I love this guys jammers, he was supposed to be a guy of the week a few weeks back, but the pic would never load. I'm not sure what school he is with but I love the jammer with the red waistband, I know they have speedo styles like this, I want one, any one know what school this is?

DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

T is for Thanksgiving, um not today it’s for Thong

Ok I make no excuses for me liking thongs. I think they are sexy, others do, so I say to each their own. But the day started off with me reading my blogs and on the Towleroad. They have a top story the Marquette University lacrosse team was suspended from campus due to hazing that happened with thongs, beer and bongs. Yes that’s right str8 boys in thongs. Below is a pic that was posted on the net from the alleged “hazing”



Why is it that I have found tons of pics of str8 frat boys in thongs? Hmm kinda makes you wonder. Mainly the pics are at parties and such but still, where are the boys getting the thongs. Some are women’s thongs that they got from friends but some are men’s thongs and you just don’t see many frat boys going to buy thongs. But here are a few more pics of str8 guys in thongs.



This was just the start of the day, that would have thongs at the center front of my day. Well I was on aol bored and chatting, and ran across one guy who had pics in thongs. He’s a bi guy and the same guy in Gwinnett that took pics of me years ago took pics of him. I noticed the same kitchen and headboard on the bed. So we chatted for a bit and he has the butt for a thong. Then he stopped talking. Figures with online chat sometime. But hey got to check out some nice pics.

Then another guy I talked to about a year ago sent me a message about what he did in his thong that I convinced him to buy last year. I haven’t met him but he told me some interesting things, that his massage therapist did after the massage, you don’t have to have too much imagination to realize what happened.



So it’s been a very interesting day so far, never guessed today would be a thong day rather then turkey day! Kidna interesting if you ask me. Hope to see more thongs around!

Not a good two for day….

I found out last night that J2’s partner or new bf is in the hospital, I may have mentioned this already but, he called me last night and said he was on the way to the hospital, but he didn’t sound worried, and I thought he was being a smart *ss, just like we do to each other. Just like I told him the other night Thomas and me had a fight and it was over. I’m so bad. But he wasn’t kidding. His bf was admitted with appendicitis. I called him this morning and he said they were taking him to surgery at 9 AM and then called he called me later around 3 and said that there was no news.

Well the day went on, and I’ve sprained my ankle again, I’m so tired of it, but that’s another story. But around 7 he called me back and said that his appendix had ruptured so they couldn’t do the easy one they had to actually cut him open and do it. Not good, so J2 is a little stressed about everything and understandably so, I told him I’d help him as much as I could. But not sure how well I’ll be with this ankle. So I told him to call me later, but he said he talked to his man and that he seemed good, well as could be expected, but I just hope everything goes well. Keep a good thought for him.

As for my ankle, grrrr, there’s something with the ligaments or something below my ankle on the inside of my foot that every now and then it just goes out. I gotta get a job and insurance again. Luckily I’m watching the Faith Hill special, so far so good, I gotta write my blog entry about music. Oh well, I just need a hug tonight, just been a crummy day. Ok, gotta put my foot up and hopefully get better before Friday so I can go out and have fun….grrrrrrrr

The Internet is a Wonderful Place and the Sox Rock!

Yes and today I mean it, unlike a lot of times where you run across useless info or a trick you have long tried to forget but runs across you and won’t let go. But today it is a good thing. I was on Bear 411 the other week and got a message out of the blue. It was someone I knew a few years back, who we’ll call Sox Fan, because he’s a big Red Sox fan.

Ok we need a little background on Sox Fan, well we met on AOL a few years back. We both like undies and he’s the one who told me about the straight boy who wore a thong. I was like NO WAY, but from what I remember his gf at the time narced him out. So we talked underwear and he told me that he got thongs in Wal-Mart. Which took me like two years to find here in Atlanta area. Then for some reason we lost touch. For what reasons I don’t recall.

Then as mentioned above he sent me a message out of the blue on Bear 411 and I was like this is a small world. We reminisced a little and caught up. He moved and got a man. They have been together for over a year but known each other for a while. He’s supposed to come down for a wedding, with someone he went to college with. He went to UGS in Athens. Which would be great to meet him. And he invited me up to Maine to his beach house this coming summer. So gotta get my ass to the Gym and work out and wear my Speedos again.

But he called me this am and mad me jealous, he and his partner didn’t have sex once but twice, once last night and once the night before, grrrrr, I’ll leave out the detail that got me the most today LOL it’s funny. But he asked did he have an entry and I said, you deserve your own entry.

He’s got the Boston accent that I love, shh don’t tell my southern friends I maybe shipped out of the south. We talk a few times a week online and on the phone. You know Sox fan is one guy I wish I lived in the same town. Usually my luck is like that. I meet really great guys but usually they are 1000 miles away, But I think the tide is turning on that, this past year I have met J2, Thomas and a few others. So life is pretty good. Now I’m going to try and get Sox fan to post a comment or heck, maybe get him to write up a bit about me and be my guest blogger for the day, I think I’ll offer Thomas the same but he doesn’t have to take me up on it right now but the offer is there, he has his own blog which I need to link, I’ll do that soon. I have to say, he reads the blog daily so I’m sure he’ll read this before we talk. He’s out of town right now. LOL well I guess I’ll have to be good, darn LOL But back to my point of my posting, I’d love to hear what Sox Fan has to say about me. Ok Sox Fan, you wanna guest blog? The ball is in your court, I’ll post it unedited (except for naughty words), what do you say?

Birthday Celebration… strippers?

Yes it’s a two for day! Ok the birthday came and went, well the celebration. It was a very low key I gathered with 8 of my good friends and we did dinner at Maggiano’s, and man was it good. I love Maggiano’s so much. I had some very good friends I’ve had for a while and some new ones. It was a good nite and I had a DATE, yeah the new man went with me. I have a group of friends who are, how shall we say, very outspoken, and he fit right in. It’s the large personality thing. LOL, but something tells me there is a lot to learn about him. Kinda of like an oinion, there are many layers to him. But more on that later.

But the day began with me and Thomas going to the gay rugby match. It was full of beefy boys, great eye candy. I had my work out partner, who never worked out with me come up to me and I had no clue who he was, I suck at recognizing people after talking on line or meeting once. I think he was pissed but hey I was honest I didn’t know who he was. Then the rugby team had a beer bust at Burkharts and we went, none of the rugby boys were there, and we left around 4:30 to get to dinner by 6. I was told by M&T that we were going to the early bird special. But the one in Buckhead only had 3 or 10, so when Perimeter said 6 I was on that. So we went to dinner. The only problem with dinner is that it was too noisy and J2 sat at the end of the table and he didn’t get a chance to say anything with Thomas, or my end of the table. Well next year I think I’ll have a party so everyone can talk. But the food was great, the only thing I wanted was Veal Parmesan. Which I got and killer chocolate cake. I think our waiter Mike was gay. He is a beefy Italian guy, he was sexy to me. But it was a low key night. M&T gave me the Oprah 20th anniversary DVD set, which I wanted, yeah I can be such a homo at times, and got a few other things and Mr. Thomas was dead on in his gift it was scary.

Then me and Thomas went back to his house and hung out and M&T went over to see J&B new house, which shhh you didn’t hear it from me but J&B are no more, so they went with B. then we went to the Eagle for a minute and I had a drink and then went back to Mr. Thomas’ house. It was great. The Eagle T asked me what my angle was, he said me dating was unnatural LOL, you have to know him, he said “Your angle is he’s rich and you’re going to roll him” LOL god I love those too. We went to the gift shop, aka the leather store, and they have a lace up lather jock, if I had been working I would have bought it for myself for my birthday, and put it on right there LOL but alas, no money.

And no there is not hot story like the thong from the stripper last year, but there will be a make up date for naked people. I hopefully will have a good story to tell about that.

If it ain’t broke don’ fix it…. The new Poseidon Adventure.

Ok, I finally got finished watching the new Poseidon Adventure on NBC that I taped, yeah I taped it, not in the Tivo generation yet. I’m still on the A/V limited access road rather then the information super highway. One thing you should know is that I love 70’s disaster flicks. Airport, all four movies, Towering Inferno, and Earthquake. I had my reservations about the redo of one of the most classic disaster films of all time. The original had a great cast, Gene Hackman, Shelley Winters, Leslie Neilson, Earnest Borgnine, Red Buttons, Roddy McDowell and Jack Albertson. Compare this to the new cast Adam Baldwin, Ruetger Hower, Steve Goutenberg, and C. Thomas Howell. Not exactly a step up from the original cast.

Moving on to the plot, well the original is set on New Years eve, when a tidal wave comes and capsizes the ship, and they have to race up through the ship and the obstacles they encounter. Who could forget the “Manny!” screams for Shelley Winters. But the new version had, instead of a tidal wave, terrorist plant bombs on the ship and explode one and the ship capsizes. Now, forget all about the characters in the original. We have a dysfunctional family and the affair the father has with a waitress, the bishop and the Shelley Winters character.

Well continuing on the plot. This plot had to been the worst for a remake. You know there are two philosophies for doing a remake. 1. Either make it better then the original, which happens from time to time, sorta like Oceans 11. 2. Make it campy as hell. Best example of this is the Brady Bunch. This did neither. This would be making Lord of the Rings with the cast of any WB comedy. Just wouldn’t work.

I can’t believe I actually taped it and watched it. Will I ever learn? I should know better then watch a Made for TV movie. If I want Drama I should go tune in Lifetime, at least they know drama.

Hot Guy of the Week #8

A cutie


The muscle boy next door

DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

I HAD A DATE!

Yes its true. Well it was a meet someone off line, but it turned out to be a three hour conversation. So I guess that would be considered a date. I consider those one hour, meet and greets, just that, nothing more. But I met Thomas: The Mo, as he requested to be referred by. And for the record, I did tell him I was going to write about him in the blog. Ok on with the story, we met, well I’ll leave that a mystery for now, but it was online and we did chat for about two weeks. I have my late class on Monday nights and we met at a bar in East Atlanta and we talked for three hours, I kid you not. And the really amazing thing is I never checked my watch aka cell phone, once for the time. With me that’s pretty good, in fact that’s’ just damn amazing. But Thomas was just so easy to talk to and the night just zoomed by. I wish we could have talked more but I needed to get home and get stuff for class the next day.

But let me tell you about him, first off he’s got the guy next door looks, which we all know I like more then anything. With me keep the models and the people like that, they are stuck on themselves. Just regular guys just get me going and get my attention. Well, he also has a large personality, which means he’s very colorful and funny and just he has a presence about him with I really like. Get your minds out of the gutter too, I know what you were thinking. He has a job, which is good and it’s involved in the arts, and I think he’s pretty intelligent as well, and we all know I can’t go out with a stupid guy, nothing drives me crazy then trying to talk about things in the world and they look at you like you’re speaking Chinese. With Thomas I can actually talk and I have realized that what I’ve said before, I want man who’s smart but also intelligent in other areas then me. I think this is Thomas too. It’s been pretty interesting.

And yes I have been myself and stated things up front. The truth from the beginning. Which I have gotten flack from many readers and friends. You shouldn’t do that and you shouldn’t say that and all sorts of stuff, Well I think Thomas is the same way, we’ve joked about both being commitment phobic, and I know I am, and it’s pretty cool, he’s just laid back and easy going about things. But the great thing about him is his sense of humor, OMG he made me laugh all night long and I hope I made him laugh too. Sense of humor is the key for me, make me laugh and you’re so in. Nothing sexier then a funny man.

But, we’ve chatted since our date, which was 3 days ago and both say we want to take things really slow and let things happen and evolve over time. Which is awesome to me, in this town you’re married after a week. I don’t want someone to marry, I want someone to get to know, hang out and take it from there. We’ll just take it one day at a time and see what happens. BTW he has his own blog too, so I’ll post a link to it as well. Just wanted to let you know what was going on and I did have a date! And yes we have another date in the works and a third, go figure, LOL, this is new to me, a third date, wonder what you do on it LOL, and for the record, we didn’t have sex the night we met, just talk and a hug!

I have a following! Well 3 steady readers but It’s a start.

Ok, well it’s not all that, but I have knowledge of a few regular readers. Which I’m pretty psyched about. I am very happy how the blog has taken off. I have a few really good links, from the view from 35,000 feet which does blog reviews, thanks guys and from Rocketman’s Launch Pad. Thanks Rick, and the entry I did about Skin Tight parties really did some great stuff. I just thing it’s awesome in one month I doubled my total hits. Thanks guys. I have one link that is in Spanish and I’m not quiete sure it’s a good post, so if anyone speaks Spanish let me know, I want to know what is being said about me, babblefish didn’t tell me much.

And before I get into the entry, be warned the postings over the next two weeks may not be as frequent, school work and the birthday are coming up. And for those who know me, the birthday is an event, it’s a week long celebration, that is being cut back this year, grrr, due to funding problems, yeah that’s it. But next year will be back in full force.

Ok, since I have somewhat of a following, I wanted to share some of my favorite blogs I read regularly.


Joe.My.God - I have to say this is one of the first blogs I ever came across. And I love the way Joe writes, he’s witty, funny and totally sounds like the kind of guy I could go grab a beer/drink with and just talk for hours. He lived in Tampa and reminds me so much of my friend T, (of M&T) and emailed Joe once and asked was there something in the water about Tampa and long, involved, funny stories. They have similar stories, I wonder if they ever met…hmmmmmmm. He lives in NYC now and has just as many stories, One day I will be up on his level, I hope! Check him out I think he is the god of blogging.

Rocketman’s Launching Pad - Formerly Rocketman’s Ramblings, I think, a guy in Chicago in the Chorus up there and I think he reminds me a lot of me in ways. He seems like such a great guy, from the blog postings I’ve read. Check him out as well plus he gave me a link from his site. Which I didn’t know he did! Till I check Technorati one day. Thanks Rick, and he just went on a date so go read all about it, he sounds sweet as hell.

Kinda Like Porn, No Real Plot - Billy is the first blogger I talked too. He’s a great guy and has some really funny stuff on his site. You can read about him and is partner on his site. He’s a great guy so go over and check him out.

A Muscle Boy in training - http://www.laakapu.org/ - this is a blog with good eye candy. For the life of me I can’t remember his name but he’s a teacher in Hawaii and the title says it all.

Scott-o-rama - Scott has a great blog for more eye candy and It’s fun to read about him and his bf, buckaroo. He lives in AZ and I think is another great writer. He is one of the people in the blog world I wish I could grab a beer with and talk, just think he’d make a great friend.

Large Tony - And yes Tony is large, and I ain’t talkin’ as in weight, I’m talking something else, you know what I mean. I think I have some things in common with Tony. I think me and him have very similar personality aspects. But he posts about once a week but they are pretty good posts.

Best Gay Blogs - This is a great site to find other blogs. I hopefully will be reviewed on it soon, I know they are busy and have a lot of blogs waiting to be reviewed. But I’m happy they linked me from the site, if they never review me then that’s ok, but I have a link on a very high traffic site. But check it out almost daily for new blogs and and reviews.

Towleroad - This is a site devoted to sports, and hot pics from sports. Are we noticing a theme here? LOL Yeah I like blogs with hot pics on it. But not all on this list are. But some are great writers.

Mr. Brian’s Opinions - I like Brian’s blog because I was told by Billy that me and him did underwear posts the same week. LOL Again another small world. I read him and he’s written a book, so it’s pretty cool to read his blog.

Sodomy Creek - An Atlanta guy, he is dating with Monotonous. I think it’s cool to read what other guys in ATL are writing about and what’s going on.

Monotonous - Again he is dating Sodomy Creek, for the life of me I can’t remember names, I know know bad Tim, but he just got an iBook as well so It’s great when you read about people switching to Mac

Boys Briefs - Chris, see I do know some names, is another Atlanta guy and writes about everything. He just started dating a guy and I think likes undies as well. He had a cool Halloween costume, and just got an inteterview on Best Gay Blogs. I thought at first he was a circuit boy but he’s really impressed me with his blog.

So these are what I’m reading, I know this week I’ve been slack but it’s been a busy school week. I actually had a date, with Thomas: The Mo, yes that’s what he asked to be called, and I already told him I’d be writing about him in the blog. So I hopefully will have it posted tomorrow. But no promises.

Hot Guy of the Week #7

Ok, this image his HOT to me, A swimmer in jammers holding a football. I love it when the combine two things!



This is one reason I like football and specifically Texas A&M, I love thier baseball team but the main reason I like thier football team is thier pants are see through. As you can see in this series of pics. I had to post all of them, they were just too good not too!



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Need help; stretching???

DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Breaking up…. What’s the best way to get on after it’s happened.

I have two really good friends who just broke. And I must say I was not surprised, I was more surprised it took so long. But I won’t go into details about it, just not fair to either of them and it’s so far been a civil break up for someone who’s been together for over 3 years. Which is a good thing. But it got me thinking. This situation is very much like the one I had with my ex. What do you do when one partner is over the whole relationship and the other will do anything to save it?

I’ve been on both ends of this but the longest relationship I had was over 2 years, and I was the one who wanted to save it. Looking back now, you see things so clearly, hindsight is 20/20. What happened was for the best, but when I was in the situation it was not. Its my feeling that if you’re the party who is over the relationship and you have tired to fix what was wrong and it can’t be fixed or the other person is unwilling to fix it, ti’s time to end it and move on. A lot of people say, “well what about the other partner? Their feelings are going to get hurt” Yeah that’s very true, and it’s better to do it sooner then later. I think if you do it later, and you’re the one over the whole situation then you will only get worse as time goes by and resent your partner for having to stay there. It’s never easy ending a relationship (for most of us) that has gone on for many years but sometimes it’s for the best.

As for the one who wants to save the relationship. I made my ex promise me at the beginning if there were problems let me know, or if he ever wanted out tell me right then and not leave me hanging on. Well this didn’t’ happen. About a year before we broke up, it was my birthday party and he didn’t want to come and was over it, looking back now, this was the beginning of the end. He came to the party because my grandmother died that day and he was there for moral support. But things went down hill from there. We constantly fought, and life just became crappy. Then we had a talk and determined we should separate for a while. This really took me by surprise but you can’t make someone love you and if things progress so far with out anything being said or done to fix them, sometimes it’s just too late to change it. That’s what happened to me and my ex. He let things build up so much and kept things in so long that when they did come out he spend all his emotional energy already and to him it wasn’t worth saving. And I understand that, I hated him for many months but I realize that our relationship never had good communication and we never really talked. I don’t think we were good friends even. It was all about sex at times. Then after about a month or more of separation, he decided to end it and tell me on July 4th, I know quite ironic in a way. But before that I realized that things sucked between us and things would not change and I was actually thinking about doing the breaking up. But didn’t, now in his defense, he did it on the phone, which was not the way he wanted to do it, but you know when someone tells you they want to talk and you just instinctively know that it’s bad, that’s what it was that night. We have since made up and talk occasionally but I wouldn’t consider us friends, we are just too different I think. Do I still love him, no, I don’t, and I really don’t remember why I did, I know that’s sad to say but that relationship taught me a lot and I’m very glad I had it. The next one will be much better.

After we broke up I was convinced we would be together again, and we were meant for each other. Well I was one step away from a stalker I tell ya, but that never happened. For the first month or so I was devastated, Right when it happened, I was like I can’t date again, I don’t know what’s it’s like, it sucks dating, and all that. But it’s one of the best things that happened to me. Yeah in the beginning it sucked but every day it got better, and all things heal in time. Yeah I gave up dating for a while to find myself and I think I have, I think anyone who dates me now will have a much better friend and partner because of it. I have found out what’s important and what’s not. So break up’s are not a bad thing at all. Even though they seem your world is falling apart. I think it was really hard on me because I really had no friends at the time of the break up. If you have no friend you can’t possibly make it sane through it, there were times I thought I was going crazy, you need a friend to say, we need to get you out of the house and get your mind off things. Which I’m trying to do to my friends, both of them, which is something different, you’re friends to both but you’re in the middle. I just have to pay attention to what you say and keep word to both parties.

Just something that goes along with being terminally single!

Abs Required.... By Manhunt

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200 in One Day!

Whooo howooo, can you believe it I had 200 visitors in one day. I think over the past week and a half I have almost doubled my readership for the past year. I want to thank Droo for posting a link in his yahoo groups. Thanks for reading guys and check back often. This last week and a half has been sucking but hey can’t let it get me down. But I’m totally psyched about the increase in traffic (see graph below).





I have my site posted on a few more larger sites and I hope to get more readers soon. Now I have to come up with topics to write about and keep it fresh and new. This past week I wish I had a guest blogger to write, but I didn’t. maybe soon. Stay tuned and tell your friends!

Man that's SKINTIGHT!

Guys at SkinTight hanging out

Ok, I left you hanging yesterday, and here it is. SkinTight parties are the ones in NYC where guys get together at a bar and wear their spandex (biking, superhero, wrestling singlets, leather, latex and Under Armour, and much, much more). They can dance and drink and make a night of it. I think it's kind of like a celebration of your fetish. I don't know who thought up the idea but a guy named Droo, (yes I spelled it right), has become the spandex prince of NYC. He is the organizer and host from what I can tell of the parties.


More Guys at SkinTight hanging out, I love the guy in the speedo!

I have seen Droos pics online for a while and chatted with him on AIM. He seems like a great guy. He's big time into gear so you know he scores points with me! The parties have been at some other bars and have moved to the current one. At this one, it's preferred if you wear some type of skin tight clothing, but it's not necessary to get into the event. There is an area for people to change so they don't have to walk the streets of NYC dressed as a college wrestler, or as Spiderman. You can wear anything from an Under Armour shirt with jeans, or a latex catsuit. Mostly it's some type of lycra gear. Which I think is cool, because from what I understand about the last parties, they were in an open bar, and I know if I were going I'd stay home, to have the regular queens be bitchy about the gear and really tear into people (Make fun of them)* I'm of the school, if you're having fun and not hurting anyone, there's no reason for someone to make fun of them. That's just me though, & although I don't always live up to it, you never intentionally hurt someones feelings. I know there are tons of fetishes out there, some of which I don't quite understand, but as long as you're consenting adults, knock yourself out. Ok, off the soap box and back to reality.


Not sure what the guy on the left is wearing, either a skin suit or looks like a BMX suit, either way it's HOT

If I remember correctly the parties started as HardComixxx, with kind of superhero theme. Guys would dress up in superhero costumes, (spandex and the like), and get together. Now that is very hot! As a kid, who didn't want to strip Aquaman or Robin and have their way with them? As you notice they always drew the guys with big bulges. I guess the gay guys in the comic book world drew the men they way they wanted, and the str8 guys in the comic book world drew women with large breasts. Like most guys though I don't have a superhero costume and couldn't wear one that often. So I think the move to all things spandex really gets more guys involved. Rather then spending big money, (some of the Superman costumes I've seen have been over $400, & Droo told me about Spiderman suits upwards of $1,500.00!), you can wear something you already own and just go hang out.


Gear guy supreme Droo, in front in the red/black skinsuit

As you can see by some of the pics there are some guys who like to wear superhero costumes, and there are others who just wear spandex. I think it's a cool mix. You see guys hanging out, dancing and drinking beer. Now that's my kind of night. And btw, Droo said it was cool to post the pics. I wanted to make sure before I did. I think it's really cool that guys in NYC are really embracing their fetish. There have been guys who have come all the way from Greece, Europe, China, Australia, and from points all over the USA. I really want to go up and go to one. As you can see by the pics the guys aren't all super muscle studs, most are just average guys and to me that's perfect. I think the parties are awesome.


A hot super hero and latex/rubber suit on the other hot guy

You can keep up to date with party information at the following internet addresses:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SkinTightNYC/

http://hometown.aol.com/skintight212718/

Something Fun……

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Hot Guy of the Week #6

This guy is very cute to me. Just a guy next door type that I love! What a cute face!



OK had to make a change, due to the fact the pic wouldn't load right. This is a hottie in the pool. It makes me want to work out and get guns like that!

Enjoy more to come later


DISCLAIMER: I make no claims as to the sexual orietnation of guys in the Hot Guys of the Week, they are pics of guys i think that are hot that i get off the net.

Life Goes On.........

Ok, I planned to do something special for my one year anniversary of the blog but this week has really been one from hell. I found out Monday, quite unexpectedly too, that the family business closed. So that means that I’m out of a job, well as soon as we get everything wrapped up.

It’s kind of been a roller coaster of emotions. I never liked working for the family but, it was something that I wanted to succeed due to my parents. They put a lot of money in the business and that’s gone now. So I wanted to write a few things but just haven’t felt like it.

So now the task begins to find a job. I have one slight problem that will make it hard for me to find a job till December. I have a class two days a week, from 11 AM till 12:30 PM. I hope I can find a job in marketing. If anyone knows anything please let me know!