I HAD A DATE!

Yes its true. Well it was a meet someone off line, but it turned out to be a three hour conversation. So I guess that would be considered a date. I consider those one hour, meet and greets, just that, nothing more. But I met Thomas: The Mo, as he requested to be referred by. And for the record, I did tell him I was going to write about him in the blog. Ok on with the story, we met, well I’ll leave that a mystery for now, but it was online and we did chat for about two weeks. I have my late class on Monday nights and we met at a bar in East Atlanta and we talked for three hours, I kid you not. And the really amazing thing is I never checked my watch aka cell phone, once for the time. With me that’s pretty good, in fact that’s’ just damn amazing. But Thomas was just so easy to talk to and the night just zoomed by. I wish we could have talked more but I needed to get home and get stuff for class the next day.

But let me tell you about him, first off he’s got the guy next door looks, which we all know I like more then anything. With me keep the models and the people like that, they are stuck on themselves. Just regular guys just get me going and get my attention. Well, he also has a large personality, which means he’s very colorful and funny and just he has a presence about him with I really like. Get your minds out of the gutter too, I know what you were thinking. He has a job, which is good and it’s involved in the arts, and I think he’s pretty intelligent as well, and we all know I can’t go out with a stupid guy, nothing drives me crazy then trying to talk about things in the world and they look at you like you’re speaking Chinese. With Thomas I can actually talk and I have realized that what I’ve said before, I want man who’s smart but also intelligent in other areas then me. I think this is Thomas too. It’s been pretty interesting.

And yes I have been myself and stated things up front. The truth from the beginning. Which I have gotten flack from many readers and friends. You shouldn’t do that and you shouldn’t say that and all sorts of stuff, Well I think Thomas is the same way, we’ve joked about both being commitment phobic, and I know I am, and it’s pretty cool, he’s just laid back and easy going about things. But the great thing about him is his sense of humor, OMG he made me laugh all night long and I hope I made him laugh too. Sense of humor is the key for me, make me laugh and you’re so in. Nothing sexier then a funny man.

But, we’ve chatted since our date, which was 3 days ago and both say we want to take things really slow and let things happen and evolve over time. Which is awesome to me, in this town you’re married after a week. I don’t want someone to marry, I want someone to get to know, hang out and take it from there. We’ll just take it one day at a time and see what happens. BTW he has his own blog too, so I’ll post a link to it as well. Just wanted to let you know what was going on and I did have a date! And yes we have another date in the works and a third, go figure, LOL, this is new to me, a third date, wonder what you do on it LOL, and for the record, we didn’t have sex the night we met, just talk and a hug!